It is often said that opposites  attract.  People who know me and Yong know how different we are.  Yong is quiet, and I am loud.  Yong always thinks before acts, and I am spontaneous.  Our different strength and weakness allow us to complement each other, especially when it comes to parenting.  I am the one that organize all Sylvia’s play days, and we can have so much silly fun together.  But when it comes to setting boundaries, disciplines etc, Yong always steps up.  And we have many friends and brides and grooms who are paired up this way.  Debra and Dan is one such couple.

The first time we met with them, we noticed how different they are.  Dan is a computer science Ph.D, working with computers day in and day out, while Debra is an eye doctor, who works with people all the time.  Debra is easy going and she can make you feel at home the moment you meet her.  Dan, like most folks with engineering focus, is very logical and detailed oriented.  He even helped us to improve the wording of our contract.  At their wedding, they had a Lego theme game.  That was just so Dan J.   It is amazing to see how different they are, yet how much they love and care for each other.

Debra and Dan, thanks for having us for your wedding.  Yong and I know you together will be an invincible team!

Opposites Attract by Boogs

Everyone says I’m a good girl and yes it’s true
no one understands why the one I’m with is you.
no matter how much bad you’ve done, to me you’ll never lie
thinking of my life without you makes me wanna cry.
people dont understand why I’m the bad boy’s chick
but what they don’t see is that you’re here for me through thin and thick
people stare like it’s wrong everytime we’re in sight
well if loving you is wrong then i dont want to be right.
we love each other very much and its a fact;
who cares what people say or think, the truth is opposites attract.

Not from Yong and I if that’s what the title makes you think . They are from our brides and grooms. Recently we have received quite a few baby news, and I just can’t help the urge to write down a few words. I would like to thank all our brides and grooms for staying in touch with us, and sharing with us what’s going on in their lives and their wonderful news of bundles of joy. Thank you for always remembering us more than just the folks who took my wedding pictures. You have kindly befriended us and sometimes make us feel like extended families. Whenever we receive such an email, it always warms our heart. It is moments like this that make us feel this whole business and all the hard work and effort goes into it is truly worthy it. We want to thank you ALL.

We would also like to give our best wishes to those new babies, Tina and Thomas’ baby boy, Sarah and Jawad’s baby girl, Laura and Andre’s angel girl. We are SO SO happy for you guys! We wish they all have a blessed life ahead of them. And Tina, Sarah and Laura, happy mother’s day!

We know that some of our brides and grooms are trying to have babies this year. You are in our prayers. If it is taking longer than what you had hoped for, just keep in mind God knows when is the best timing and he has the best prepared for you.

To all our brides and grooms, we would like to say THANK YOU!